The Why

When you figure out the why (why did this happen, why is he/she in my life, why is he/she no longer in my life) it doesn't mean there is something to it. Like maybe its just recognizing the importance of someone's presence.  Maybe its just for clarity. Nothing more. Which is pretty significant in itself. Its not about getting all fixated on "what it all means", . Its simply recognizing the why. That's it.